The causes?

Tram asked me if my friend had came over or spoke to me since he came over to my apartment a few weeks ago. I said,"well.. We've been sorta exchanging messages on Facebook and he STILL hasn't came to my apartment to pick up his daughter's present. I told him that I was sick of buying people gifts for Christmas and not giving them to them because they don't come to my place." tram said,"I hate to tell you.. I told you so. He just wanted your cookies.. I told you not to give it up so fast- but NO ONE LISTENS TO TRAM! I didn't like that screwball zack either but you CLAIMED you were in love with him.." then I said,"I was desperate and I'm probably gonna get desperate again." tram said,"yeah.. We don't want you to get that desperate again." I'm pretty sure I was just desperate for companionship.